Having kids means that you now are responsible for other human beings. The pressure is on, but so is everything else that you have to deal with. Whether you work or stay at home, the to-do list is always growing and never seems to be checked off. One of the things that help families stay productive is getting your children to pitch in when it comes to the housework and helping keep the home, their home, a nice, welcoming, and safe place. The problem comes when your children fight you in regards to housework and chores. The endless reminders and fighting about chores can get pretty old pretty fast, and the last thing you want to do is become a nagging parent. There are several ways you can get the children to help you out with the housework without losing your mind.
How to Get Your Kids to Help with Chores
Make Each Child Responsible For Their Own Room
It’s a good idea to set up ground rules that each child is responsible for your their room. This is a privilege and chore. Explain to your kids, no matter at what age, that this is their space. They can decorate (in moderation) how they want, do with it what they want, but that you expect a level of cleanliness. A daily checklist of what the room needs to look like before they leave for school and before bed can help them stay on top of keeping their room tidy.
Set Up A Reward System
Children, and adults, love getting stuff. We all love being rewarded for a job well done, so bringing the concept into housework is an easy way to get the job done right away and the right way. Have a list of items your children can do, along with the reward for each item. Whether it’s money, more TV time, or extra dessert, put it on the list so children can plainly see it.
Do It Together
When asking your children to clean, it’s common to meet resistance. One way to reduce the resistance is to clean together. This way, your children will know how to do it and can do it by themselves the next time. Also if you ask a child to do something like clean the bathroom, let him know that you will be vacuuming the living the room and see who can be done first. When children see that you all are cleaning as a family, they will want to help and join in as well.
Getting your children to pitch in with the housework not only teaches them the skills to be responsible for themselves and others, but also helps reduce the time you spend keeping up with the house and frees up more time for everyone to spend together.
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Stepfanie Cuevas has been a writer and blogger for the past 7 years. You can find out more about Stepfanie by checking out her personal blog at Stepfanie’s Desk.
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