I often overhear parents say, “I would like to read to my child more, but he/she (let’s face it, it is usually a he) just won’t sit still”. As a former reading lady and mother of several wiggly children, I thought I would share some of the tricks that I use to read to wiggly children.
First, I start reading to my children long before they can escape (within days of birth). The earlier you start reading to your children, the more likely it is to seem like a regular daily activity like eating or bathing.
Be animated! Be silly! Make sound effects:
My husband gasping while reading “Two beetles gasped and ran away” from Miss Spider’s Tea Party: The Counting Book.
Alternate reading with an action song. When my son is wiggly, we follow Miss Spider’s Tea Party: The Counting Book with the Itsy Bitsy Spider, then read The Very Busy Spider and follow it up with several rounds of Old McDonald’s Farm.
Engage Your Child. Ask them to point to pictures. Being willing to stop and discuss a picture or concept they find interesting:
My second oldest wiggle worm reading to my youngest wiggle worm.
How do you read to your wiggly children?
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April @ The 21st Century Housewife says
I love the idea of ‘covert teaching’ – what a great concept! There are some wonderful tips here, and I speak as the mom of a formerly very wiggly boy. (He is now a totally non-wiggly grown up – and yes, he will be very, very cross with me for saying that so please don’t tell him 😉
groovie mom says
My kids sometimes like to build with Legos, toss a ball in the air, draw…when I'm reading to them. It used to drive me nuts, but when I would "quiz" them on what I'd just read about, they always knew what was going on so now I let them do as they please so long as it's quiet.
The Activity Mom says
Great tips! My 3 year old is great about sitting and paying attention to a story now but when he was much younger he'd always walk away and I'd just keep reading and he usually came wondering back for the rest of the story.